It feels like it happened yesterday, but today is the 14th anniversary of the 9/11 attacks on American soil. That day, people went to work and got on planes, unaware this day would be their last one.
Like many, I use this day to reflect about the event — and this gives me pause to think about what I’m grateful for. So without further ado, here are the 10 things I’m thankful for, not in any particular order of importance. I’m grateful for an infinite number of things, but these are the ones that come to my mind today, September 11.
1. I’m grateful for the privilege of raising my daughter. Although we were randomly paired by the Chinese government, we have made a wonderful family who are perfect for each other. Rather than take motherhood for granted, I relish it. The universe had decided that two people from opposite ends of the world belonged together.
2. I’m so thankful I’ve surrounded myself with kind, generous-spirited people. I have wonderful friends and acquaintances who give me great joy. Last night I was lucky enough to socialize with people of various backgrounds, and I reflected how blessed I was to be in such great company.
3. My family is my anchor, and I remain close to them, though distance keeps us apart for much of the year. Part of my family live in my household — they are my two cats and a rather large goldfish.
4. I’m alive.
5. I have wonderful physicians and nurses who treat me with kindness and respect and have done their best to save my life and keep me healthy.
6. I’ve rediscovered art. After a long hiatus, I started painting and sketching again, resulting in optimal meditative relaxation. More on this in a future post.
7. I’ve rediscovered reading. Though chemobrain has affected my attention span and concentration, I have made reading a priority and have regained my love of reading. I’m almost 60 percent done with War and Peace. It’s taking me a long time to get through this book (doesn’t it for everyone?) but I am enjoying this piece of literature.
8. I’m grateful to have a roof over my head and enough to eat. This sounds basic, but so many people have nothing; I realize my good fortune.
9. I write regularly and love it. Putting words down on the screen and on paper is cathartic and fun.
10. I’m grateful to my readers and the online community I belong to. In many respects, this community has been my salvation, validating my concerns and feelings. And I hope that I have helped validate and support those who read my blog. I’m happy to have wonderful people like you reading my blog.
What thing(s) are you grateful for? I would love to hear about it.
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