Post Archives from the ‘Administrative’ Category

Locker Room Talk

Posted on: August 23rd, 2013 by

I love my gym’s pool, but I detest the locker room. Too many people see me naked there. I’ve always been modest and shy about my body. Still, since breast cancer socked it to me good – stealing my physical and emotional health… and my body parts – I’ve been excessively paranoid about being naked in front of others. The conversation between my paranoid self and Continue reading the story "Locker Room Talk"

No More Magic Lanterns, Please

Posted on: June 28th, 2013 by

“But as if a magic lantern threw the nerves in patterns on a screen…” -- T.S. Eliot, “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” I’ve been at it again. Doing what I do so well. Postponing visits to my doctors. I have no excuse – except that I’m scared shitless. Adding insult to injury, because of my procrastination, my medical appointments will now pile up like a multicar wreck. I’m Continue reading the story "No More Magic Lanterns, Please"

Graduation Day

Posted on: June 21st, 2013 by

Arielle and her classmates are heading for kindergarten. But for now, they are participating in their pre-K graduation ceremony. Amid applause, they head toward their seats that face the audience of their biggest fans – their loved ones. As I watch the ceremony, my eyes fill with sad-happy awe. My eyes brim with sadness, as I know these very special children – whom Ari has known since Continue reading the story "Graduation Day"

Menagerie Mondays: Ari and the Big City

Posted on: June 3rd, 2013 by

Ari stares in wonderment at beautiful Chicago. She was amazed to be so high up among the tops of skyscrapers. 20130417085310-1

Book Review: Getting Past the Fear

Posted on: May 22nd, 2013 by

Getting Past the Fear Before undergoing chemotherapy, I was understandably terrified. The nurse gave me some written materials on chemotherapy in advance of the first treatment. But these readings only provided facts; they didn’t prepare me emotionally for what was to come, nor did they address my fears or calm me down. This is the case for many, Continue reading the story "Book Review: Getting Past the Fear"

Moving Out, Moving On

Posted on: May 15th, 2013 by

Dazed and downcast, I sit on a box the movers set down at my new apartment. One of them tells me, “Why are you so sad? Your life’s just beginning! I’m divorced, and my life is the happiest ever. Yours will be, too.” I wonder if he is on crack. Happiest ever? I will never be happy again. I’m also upset that the movers know too much Continue reading the story "Moving Out, Moving On"

Menagerie Mondays: The Brides of Guangzhou

Posted on: May 13th, 2013 by
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When I was adopting Ari in China, our last stop before heading back to the United States was Guangzhou. This was where the adoption paperwork was done and where Ari received her visa. Guangzhou is a remarkable city, with many people practicing tai chi in public parks. One thing I noticed were many brides and grooms taking photo shoots there. I didn't know if these were models Continue reading the story "Menagerie Mondays: The Brides of Guangzhou"

Medivizor: A New, Easy Tool at Your Fingertips

Posted on: April 24th, 2013 by

Many grappling with a serious medical condition have done it. I know I have. From the convenience of my home, I’ve let my fingers do the walking – through the Internet. And my payoff: Being bombarded with a gazillion facts and opinions, some rather depressing. Oh, and a few information-overload panic attacks. Overwhelming? Absolutely. Enter Medivizor, a brand new online service designed to provide easy-to-understand customized information for Continue reading the story "Medivizor: A New, Easy Tool at Your Fingertips"

The Support Group That Went Haywire

Posted on: March 14th, 2013 by

As a breast cancer patient, I tried a few support groups. However, I couldn’t relate to others’ situations and didn’t quite fit in. What bothered me was people’s unwillingness or inability to talk about their innermost struggles and fears. At Gilda’s Club, a monthly support group was worth checking out. It was moderated by a social worker who was also a breast cancer survivor. I sat Continue reading the story "The Support Group That Went Haywire"

The Youngest Support Group

Posted on: February 28th, 2013 by

I recently witnessed a support group in action – and it was comprised of four-year-olds. It was the end of a weary day, and I was picking up my daughter from pre-school. As usual, I was in a hurry to get her home. After all, we had a schedule to follow: dinner, some mandatory fun, and bedtime rituals. I was also preoccupied – dwelling on work I Continue reading the story "The Youngest Support Group"