Post Archives from the ‘Doctors’ Category

Separation Anxiety

Posted on: February 13th, 2015 by

Like many patients, I detest going to doctors -- especially since cancer entered my life. Whenever I’m in my oncologist’s waiting room I want to bolt out of there, jump in my car, and careen out of the parking garage. It really doesn’t matter that he’s a wonderful doctor and person. I just want to escape. I also experience panic overdrive when I’m with other doctors, Continue reading the story "Separation Anxiety"

Embracing Humanness

Posted on: October 1st, 2014 by

Wishing everyone a sweet year ahead is a beautiful concept -- whether it’s New Year’s in January or during Rosh Hashanah, which just recently passed. Last year, my goal on Rosh Hashanah was to cast away what I thought was the biggest sin of all -- mistreating myself. My goal last year was to purge myself of the fears that came with doctor appointments Continue reading the story "Embracing Humanness"

And the Survey Says….

Posted on: June 13th, 2014 by

I’m supposed to see my oncologist this summer. I pick up my phone. I hesitate. I tell myself I’m just not up to it and I’ll call another day. And I put down the phone. This has happened now every day for awhile. I know that I will make that appointment. But today is not the day. I have to gather the strength and courage it takes Continue reading the story "And the Survey Says…."

‘Oncologist’ Turned On a Dime

Posted on: May 15th, 2014 by

I judged him way before I met him. There I lay, on my sofa, swearing up and down that I would never, could never, ever see an oncologist. I was in limbo. My surgeon told me that day -- Almost-Botched Biopsy Day -- he was pretty sure I had breast cancer. Pretty sure, but not definitely sure. (Two days later, he Continue reading the story "‘Oncologist’ Turned On a Dime"

Go Back to Medical School, Dr. Death

Posted on: April 4th, 2014 by

My last post focused on the “little” lies people told me to encourage me when newly diagnosed with breast cancer. This post is about another lie, a whopper told by a second-opinion oncologist that threw me into a swirling inferno. The first oncologist I saw was cautiously optimistic that, with the right treatment, I had a decent prognosis. I felt somewhat reassured, but not completely, Continue reading the story "Go Back to Medical School, Dr. Death"

Wearing A Game Face

Posted on: February 5th, 2014 by

I’m a relatively content person. Yet doctors’ visits conjure up sadness and fear and grief. Since cancer turned my world upside down, appointments with physicians are so difficult. I appreciate my physicians tremendously. Besides their high competence, they have superior people skills. They talk to me as my doctors, offering sound medical advice, but they don’t treat me like a patient. They treat me like Continue reading the story "Wearing A Game Face"

Heroic Moments

Posted on: July 8th, 2011 by

Readers of my blog know what I've endured as a cancer patient and my gripes about the medical system and uncaring medical personnel. But there is something I've kept relatively quiet about -- until now. Throughout my treatments, I Continue reading the story "Heroic Moments"

Child Therapy

Posted on: May 27th, 2011 by

Helping my daughter through an obstacle
In early spring, my daughter Ari and I were having a blast at the playground. Until she hit an obstacle: a bridge Continue reading the story "Child Therapy"

Re-Examining the Examining Room Wait

Posted on: November 8th, 2010 by

Ah, the waiting room. Like many, if not all of you, I've spent long times waiting in the examination room for the doctor to arrive. I've waited as long as an hour, or as short as five minutes. When the wait is short, it's sweet. When the wait is long, well.... It feels like a lifetime, and Continue reading the story "Re-Examining the Examining Room Wait"

Seeing a Specialist? Here are Must-Do’s Before Your Appointment

Posted on: September 24th, 2010 by
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There comes the time when your general doctor refers you to a specialist. Even if the specialist is stellar, you need to make sure you have all your administrative ducks in a row so your appointment can go smoothly, hopefully without surprises. Do call the specialist's office as soon as possible to make an appointment. And when you are on the phone, Continue reading the story "Seeing a Specialist? Here are Must-Do’s Before Your Appointment"