Post Archives tagged ‘breast cancer diagnosis’



Tips for the Newly Diagnosed

Posted on: December 19th, 2014 by
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This week, someone I know told me her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer a few weeks ago. She described this experience as a rollercoaster, a very fitting metaphor, and then asked for my advice. My first thought was, “Damn, another person diagnosed with this beastly disease.” My second thought was to offer some advice she and her mother would find helpful. So I gave Continue reading the story "Tips for the Newly Diagnosed"

Go Back to Medical School, Dr. Death

Posted on: April 4th, 2014 by
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My last post focused on the “little” lies people told me to encourage me when newly diagnosed with breast cancer. This post is about another lie, a whopper told by a second-opinion oncologist that threw me into a swirling inferno. The first oncologist I saw was cautiously optimistic that, with the right treatment, I had a decent prognosis. I felt somewhat reassured, but not completely, Continue reading the story "Go Back to Medical School, Dr. Death"

Family Matters

Posted on: January 9th, 2014 by
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When first diagnosed with breast cancer, I felt a range of emotions including anger, terror, panic, sadness, grief — and the need to pray. But not in the way you might imagine. Rather than pray for my own life, my prayer went something like this: “Please don’t let anyone else in my family get cancer. Let it just be me.” Not pleading for my own Continue reading the story "Family Matters"